Apologies to all who had planned to come out and hear me read or speak or sermonize this month: For everyone at our house,  February was canceled.My dear father-in-law Teddy  made his decision last month to stop fighting his cancer. As anyone knows who has gone through something like this, you can only decide what—You can’t decide when.   We were there with Teddy and the family for the time that can’t be scheduled, postponed or  repeated: Holy time.  Teddy has gone peacefully forward into whatever comes next. He’s got his harmonica with him. He  can serenade the angels.